MrsG, I'm so very sorry to hear of your losses. It's such an absolutely devestating thing to have to comprehend, and there are sadly many women here who know the pain all too well.

I see that you have already been given wonderful advice, and there's probably nothing more that I can add, but I have found posting here and being able to work through everything was amazingly helpful. I hope you find the support here that you need, as I did after my own loss.



I elected to go with the D&C option as I wanted everything "fixed" as soon as possible. I don't regret my decision, I'm relieved that I didn't have to go through a natural miscarriage, but it also took quite a while for the reality of my loss to fully set in and I can see how going through the process could be an important part of saying goodbye for some people.

This isn't easy, no matter which way you choose to go. Remember that the right decision for you is not necessarily going to be the right decision for someone else.

I feel as though my words are so woefully inadequate at this time. Take care of yourself and your partner. :hugs:

BW