I'm so sorry to hear this. It's just heartbreaking, I can relate to you quite a bit. I've had 2 x unexplained m/c within the last 18 months. After the second m/c our ob encouraged us to have a break for a while and do some tests, just to make sure there wasn't something obvious that could be causing it. He's been so great and done a stack of tests and there is still no answer for us. It was good to have a break, I decided that I was going to use the time (4 months) to have a little holiday and work on my health. I started doing exercise and found a low GI diet controlled my skin (have always had bad acne) - so after the 4 months I felt great, mentally and physically. We've been ttc again now for 3 months - it's really hard I still cry every time af arrives but it does get easier over time.

The outlook IS still really positive so please don't lose sight of the big picture. Go to the Sydney IVF website and look for the 'miscarriage management' link. It has some really good and encouraging info there.....and from people who know what they're talking about so it's info you can rely on. One thing doctors don't do is give you false hope.

Most ob's will only do tests after 2 m/c in a row but my ob did after 2 so if you think you want to do some tests - just for piece of mind then I wouldn't hesitate to ask for something to be done.

Sending you a million hugs, take care of yourself.