Feeling empty

[feeb]

Sorry to hear about your loss.

I lost my first at 8 weeks its a terrible thing to go through.

Belly belly is a great place for support.

Rest up allow yourself to grieve and surround yourself with loving people.

[MeredithD]

Kitty - No words are enought to console after the shocking loss of a baby, however I will say it anyway... I am so, so sorry.
No one should ever have to go through a scan and see their dead baby. It is soul destroying!
Don't look to closely at my sig for confidence as I am not a total success story but, the positive news for you is that you have a VERY good chance of a successful pg next time around. The majority of m/c's are 'one offs" and most women never have another. Even I have managed one gorgeous, healthy child despite many losses.
The coming weeks will be tough, there is no doubt but time will ease the pain and you will move forward at your own pace. Come in here and speak with the wonderful women who truly understand the depth of your grief.

[diannescruffy]

Hi Kitty Cat,
Welcome, so glad you found BB. Sorry for the loss of your baby, this is a really terrible time for you. You will find lots of support and encouragement here on BB. Wishing you all the best.

Regards,
Dianne

[kittycat]

Thank you ladies. Its nice to be among people who understand.

x

[MistyFying]

Hi Kittycat. I'm so sorry for your loss

[cindyb]

Kitty cat my first preg ended exactly as you described - heart had stopped at 8 weeks but i had no signs till 10 weeks - then had the terrible bleed etc - i ended up still having to hace a D& C though as -even though i have never seen so much bloody in my life as what i lost with my m/c - i had lost only about half of what needed to be expelled.

Bellybelly got me through my m/c .....

All the best of wishes, i am sooo sorry to hear of you loss. Please know that we are all here for you 24/7 when you need to talk

[water_lily80]

hey, sorry to hear about your loss. I know exactly how you feel, losing a first pregnancy, it is scary, wondering if you will ever end up with a baby, and the emptiness. But there is hope for a bubba in the future - and all the heartache is definately worth it in the end. IU have gone on tyo have 2 precious little bubs myself, although it has been tough.

best wishes for the future

[dellydoo]

Waterlily it is great to see that you went on to have successful pregnancies.
I lost my son last week at 19 weeks and he was my first pregnancy via IVF.
Thanks for your story.
Adele