I am sorry to hear about your friend's baby. It is such a heatbreaking and devastating time for them. You are doing the best thing that you can and that is be there for her. Mel is right, you need to be there for her now more than ever. Like Mel, I had people around me just after we lost Cooper but as time went on it was like everyone else moved on, but I didn't, I couldn't. Your friend will be like that and will need to know that she still has support around her. Give her the option of whether she wants space or not but I know for me I didn't want to be alone.