Thank you to you all for your thoughts - it is so sad to read this forum & see how many people have been through a similar experience.

My DH told me that the morning of the scan where we found out our baby had died that while he was walking the dog he had a very strong feeling that our baby was a girl & thought of a name for her. We have called her Emily. We didn't have the opportunity to validate this but my husband is an amazing man and I trust in his knowledge.

He also told me that he knows that our girls are with his Mum & Dad now (who he has lost in the past few years). They were great people & wonderful grandparents. He is not a very spiritual person but this is a beautiful and comforting thought & I am really grateful that our girls are together and with their family.