I can recommend the counselling. It may be your husband wants to talk about it, or hopes it may be a way you two can deal with it together. I know when we had counselling the sessions ended up being more about how we deal with each other than actually talking about our baby.
People mourn loss very differently, so however you're feeling is your way of dealing with things. If you're not sure you want to try again, give yourself some time until you do. There are many women on here who've had losses so don't hesitate to reach out.
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