Hi kate

your poem was so beautiful it brought a tear to my eye i am glad you are finding this site helps i think it is brilliant being able to talk to people about this as i dont no anyone who has being through these experiances my sister lost a baby but delt with it very well and never really spoke much about it but it is nice to be able to open up without feeling juged or looked upon. i like the idea of having a plant or tree its a nice idea i still have my babys ashes in the living room as i dont no what to do with them but i am happy that there are with me i am just unsure what to do my DH wanted to have a plant and put the ashes there but i want them so i can have her wherever i go if that makes sence anyway sorry to ramble on take care and give yourself time to grieve.

Munchy xxx