I can't believe it!

[laluna]

Thank you for all the support and love! You are all truly amazing women and all your stories and support mean the world to me.

[MeredithD]

Laluna - my heart goes out to you. M/c is so much more traumatic than society "allows" it to be, Recurrent m/c is simply hell, yet still so poorly supported even by the medical community.
You are suffering true grief and need to be allowed to work through that as would anyone who has lost , not only one but 3 loved ones. Multiple loss does not somehow lessen the impact, it actually compounds the grief of each loss whilst the support around you can tend to dwindle.Don't let anyone tell you you can "just try again" or "at least you can get pg". Its so unhelpful when all you want is your babies back. I hope you have a supportive family/friend network around you or at least can find some comfort in here. Seek counselling if you feel comfortable. Don't underestimate your feelings... they are very real and soul destroying
I have had 2 m/c's then my DS, then another 2 m/cs and possibly may be losing another right now.
Having "all" the tests isn't always so simple and you may need to make yourself far more informed to be sure you truly have been tested for everything. After my last (4th) m/c, I looked into it all further and have had some more testing (for Natural killer cells) done in Sydney. This test can ONLY be done properly in Sydney even if a Melb Dr says they have tested you for it. I am on some extra meds this pg but given things aren't going so well atm, can't say they are actually working for me.
Some people have great success, however, so worth looking into.
Also, just wondering if you had your babies tested for any chromosome disorders?
I wish I had the magic "answer" for you but still searching myself. things will get easier in time and you do still have a very good chance of bringing a live baby into this world

[laluna]

Meridithd,
Thank you for your response. I have had tests done for chromosonal disorders and all has been well. These tests were done after the first two mc's.
My thoughts and love go to you and all you have been through and what you may be going through now. Thank you for taking the time to respond to me when you are experiencing your own terrible pain and disappointment. I hope all turns out well for you.
Laluna