Sofy - I wish that by some miracle that you could have some more time with your Angel, just to ease your pain. Only time tho will help you get thru this, and thru alot of support from those around you. You will find alot of people on here that have gone thru something similar to you, and know how you feel. It really does help to be able to get things off your chest and communicate with people who understand, such as these people on here. You realise that you aren't alone especially with how you are feeling and what you are going thru. Grieving takes time, and time is what is needed to feel somewhat normal again. The last thing I wanted was to forget my Angels and was so scared I would forget, that I wrote how I was feeling down and addressed it to my angels. I hope you have been communicating with a counsellor, as it helps to having someone there who will just let you talk and not pass judgement, and to let you know that you are normal.
Take care
Sofy - my heart truly goes out to you sweetheart. I cannot imagine the pain and grief you must be feeling. If there's anything i can do or any of us please let me know. Be kind to yourself and take all the time you need to grieve. Sending you all the hugs in the world.
Oh sweetheart I am so so sorry you have had to go through all this its just so cruel. From another Angel mummy who finally conceived after 3 plus yrs of fertility treatment and waters broke in the second trimester I feel part of your pain. Please if you want to chat just let me know.
I am sending alot of strength to you and hubby. Take every hour as it comes and no more. Grieve as long as you want, there is no time limit for this.
OMGOSH. I had tears (more crying) reading that. I cant beleive you had to go through that. That is very sad for you and DH. I can only say im sorry but that isnt going to take the pain away. Life is very unfar some time and hard to understand why these things happen.
I do know one thing, and that is your darling little boy is watching you and DH and loving you more in heaven then he would have here. You will meet again one day and just know that he is getting all the love he can handle in the arms of God.
I really hope you and DH decide to have more children and that you can injoy the love, cuddles and all the things that parenthood offer and that you didnt have to chance to have.
Once again Im sorry for your loss and hope your pain eases. It will never go but it will get abit easier as time goes by.
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