hi ferret,

firstly, im so sorry for your loss. i had a mc 2 months ago and am still struggling..
i understand how you feel, others can be sooo insensitive. Im not sure if your colleague knew about your mc or not..by SIL knew about mine, and 2 days after my D&C announced she was pg and wants me to be happy for her. i just cant do it, i just think it was so hurtful to see me still crying over the death of my little one, and tell me in front of the whole family that she was expecting.
im sorry to have ranted , but i guess what im trying to say is that i understand and im sorry....