Jen
I'm so sorry for your loss, :hugs: :hugs: I had something similar happen too - baby passed away and my body held onto it for 3.5 weeks. I had even started wearing some maternity clothes. It was just unbelieveable that I had m/c when I found out at first OB appt. I ended up having a D&C.

My dr told me I could try again straight away - even after D&C. I think the reason that most Drs say to wait is for dating purposes of a new pg and some say for emotional healing of the mum. I think that you just go with what is best for you - it's really not your doctor's decision. They can always do a dating scan to determine how far along a pregnancy is if they are unsure.