Ohh Bonnie, what a horrible thing. It would be bad enough to lose your child but to then have ti deliver him in such horrible circumstances.
I would put in a complaint about that MW, I know it won't help you but you can make sure it doesn't happen to anyone else.
I would just call that lady at work on her cruel comments, if nobody has done it for you. Tell her if she doesn't have anything supportive to say then please don't say anything at all.
Sending you lots of strength and support. XOXO