Dear Bonnie,

No one will ever really understand what you are going through and all you can do is surround yourself with those who are truly only there for you. I think you are an incredible woman going through a terrible time that no one should ever have to endure. I wish you every happiness in the world and in response to this ^&)* at your work, perhaps have a close friend who is rather vocal let her know just how ridiculous and unhelpful her comments are. Some people are just unbelievable.