Mummylion - Sometimes for some women who have experienced loss, it seems to break something in them and they don't seem to be able to empathise with other women who have experienced loss. Maybe its just they way they cope? They harden their heart? I am still sorry that you had to endure behaviour that was unacceptable from your boss. I am glad that however as she is away that you are not faced with the daily task of dealing with her. Her problems are hers, don't you let yourself worry about them. Right now, you are the most important person for you to concentrate on.

Hope you're doing ok.