Can't imagine how hurt you are feeling right now as most of us on here have had a least one child and then lost but you must not give up hope be strong you concieved that is a miracle don't forget it you may concieve again how great would that be. Hold each other give each other strength and if you want to try again go for it life is never going the way we think it is it always throws in some change !
A D&C is not too bad general anasthetic and when you wake up you feel so sad and empty but after a couple of days of pain ( take the pain killers don't be a fool ) look on the future and start counting the days when you can try again think positive remember your body can do this again if you really want.
I'm so sorry, I'm a bit older myself and understand a little of your perspective. I lost my first pregnancy at 10 weeks in August, and I'm 37 now. We still have more time before it's impossible to have a child, but I can emphathise with the excitement of planning, etc. for a baby and seeing that dream evaporate. Let yourself grieve for as long as it's necessary, and see a counselor if that's helpful for you. Sending kind thoughts and prayers for both of you.
my heart goes out to you, i myself have had a D and C and I wont lie, it isnt fun emotionally, but it isnt painful so dont be scared of that. Also please dont give up, just last week i had a patient (im an RN) and she was 47 and pregnant with a healthy baby, although she miscarried 3 times prior she still got there with no assistance. These stories sadly are few and far between but it can happen.
Oh hun, I'm so sorry for your loss, words can't express what it's like to lose a child.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your partner. Be kind to yourself
oh hun I am so so sorry x x x x
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