i was in tears reading ur story... i could not imagine what it would be like to lose a baby so far into a pregnancy. what your sis is going through must be alot to handle. I would suggest maybe getting some counceling.If you sthinking she hasnt grieved properly maybe she needs to let it out and express what she's going through. It also must be even harder with you having had an easy incomplicated, unplanned pregnancy and have a happy and healthy baby at the end of it. i guess it would be difficult for her to see ur little one growing up and developing and she'd be thinking of her little angel.

I dont really have any more advice but i'm sure that someone will pop in and give you some.

:hugs: to you and especially ur sis. maybe send her a link to BB and she may be able to read some other womens stories of loss and may feel like opening up even if its not opening up to you or family i found BB to be a great place to vent and open up