When we lost our baby me sister was also pregnant, 4 weeks ahead. She gave birth a couple of months ago.

To be honest I can't deal with her baby, I haven't seen it and don't know when I will be able to. A couple of other friends have also recently given birth. Personally, I haven't sought contact from them as it's too difficult for me still. My advice would be to bring your parents in on this, because it may be that she is putting on a brave face to you because of your situation, and maybe she'd open up to them a bit more. Other than letting her know you're there for her there's nothing else you can do, you can't force her to do anything, and I wouldn't worry about the money thing, when people are in intense grief they may say or do strange things and you don't want to upset her by bringing it up when it's probably not relevent.