jen, im really sorry for your loss. We found out on friday that id had a missed miscarriage. We went for our 12 week scan full of excitement only to be told the baby had died at 8 weeks. I had a D&C yesterday, as i hadnt had any cramping or bleeding.

I feel like im dealing with it ok at the moment but the nurses at the hospital told me to expect alot of down days in the future. I spent all day friday crying, and i guess everybody deals with their grief in their own way. Give yourself some time, I think counselling is a great idea. I feel really lucky as i have some awesome friends and a very supportive family who will let me talk to my hearts content. Ive found talking helps ALOT. So definately try a counsellor, theres nothing to loose. and take care.