Thanks Kir xx.....she was pretty horrible - I told the OB so she is going to put in a complaint as she said that's no way to talk to someone in that situation. They obviously become complacent, it was probably the 10th time she'd done it that day and figures it's no big deal, who knows. How you coped with waiting 3 weeks I do not know, it's creeping me out now! I will be having a D&C this time because this is my 3rd m/c technically so they will probably run tests to see if it's a chromosomal thing, even though my last 2 were likely chemical pregnancies due to the low progesterone. I think it's more an age thing. Great to think not only do I have to now worry about it being chromosomal. I'd love to hang onto the hope that bub is still kicking on, but the odds are against me and call it intuition but I don't feel pregnant anymore, nausea has gone - it was on and off before but it's gone altogether and I swear my stomach feels/looks less bloated. Anyway, I'll keep you posted but I hope your scan next week is a goodie, time for some good news!