What a sweet little man you have. I'm sure that the family that receive Poppy's presents will treasure them greatly.
Thinking of you and your boys today gorgeous
Been thinking of you today Bec. Xavier suggesting Poppys gifts be given to someone else made me bawl my eyes out (again). What a lovely little man you have. x
Thinking of you all today. Bless your little man for his very grown up decision. I'm so sorry that you had to say goodbye to your princess Poppy. Sending you love and strength xxx
Oh Bec - I'm so so sorry about beautiful little Poppy. My heart is breaking for you. Please take care and know I'm thinking of you and your family is this very difficult time.
We're going ok. It's been 6 weeks and 6 days since Poppy left us, and although that time has gone fast it feels like it's been such a long time. I started blogging about my experience and it's been very cathartic. I decided if I was going to blog, I was going to blog in complete honesty. We're seeing a great counsellor at SIDS and Kids and it's helping a lot. Initially I thought it would be something I would do on my own, but it's become a couples thing with my DH. We are still in so much pain, but we know it won't go away and we're learning to live with that. Somedays we accept it and others we don't. I've met so many amazing mums (many of them in here) who set off on this journey before me, and their strength gives me strength that I can cope. Thank you for your support xx
Bec, I think about you, your family and precious Poppy often. Your blog is so heartfelt and full of pain, it usually leaves me in tears. I have no words to make you better, words can't return your daughter to your arms. But know that there are people, strangers even, thinking of you and your perfect girl.
Oh Bec - I'm trying very hard not to cry at work as I read your blog. I feel very priveledged to have been given the opportunity to read it. You are very brave and if you want to kick things then go for it. Poppy is very beautiful and I'm so very sorry she couldn't stay earthside. I know she will always be with you. In your secret place locked away just for you. She is watching you and your family and she knows you will all be together one day.
Bec - you will get through..... I am glad that you and DH are going together. It will help more than you know. It's amazing how much more honest you can be with a counselor, and how they are able to elict things from each of you, that you wouldn't get yourselves. I just wish you didn't have to be on this journey in the first place. That is my one true wish. But the other is that you go gently on yourself as you learn to live life as a bereaved mother.
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