I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Husbands are great and supportive and all but they just don't seem to understand the same way other women who have been through it do.
My M/C was 2 months ago and I still get teary over it, and DH says I'm getting too emotional. All I can say is that it does get a bit easier with time. I too passed the amniotic sac and was horrified. We put it in a little box and buried it under a tree in our backyard and I get a lump in my throat every time I pass that tree.
The thing that gets me through it is the knowledge that I will get pregnant again one day soon, and I'm lucky that I was only 6 weeks when I m/c and not further along as that would have been even harder. Hang in there. You need time to grieve and you will start to feel better one day and then you will get pregnant again and you will be a mom.
My DH wanted to wait 3 months before TTC again but when he realized how much I NEEDED to start right away he agreed to wait for one normal cycle and then try again. TTC is hard to go through too but at least I feel like I'm getting closer to what I want.
Take care of yourself and enjoy all the things that you won't be able to indulge in when you are pregnant again.
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