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i am new here and wanted to share my story i was suppose to be 13 wks and started bleeding so went to dotors next day was sent straight down for u/s and blood tests they said bub was only 10 wks with no heartbeat i had a missed m/c from that day it took another wk of more tests and fighting with doctors and hrs of waiting to finally get a d&c after i have had bleeding and mild cramps for two wks i just wanna say i dunno how some of you stay so strong after going through what i have but wanna say thankyou to the other women on here who's story's iv'e read which has helped me i am truly sorry for all yr losses and send hugs to all of you
Sorry for your loss!! I have not had a m/c, but bb is the right place to be. The girls (and guys) here are very supportive and soon enough you can't think how you coped without them
I do really hope you feel better soon (hug)
Babyhopes,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel as my story is similar to yours. I had started spotting at 11 weeks and then went in for a scan and her little heart had stopped beating. It is such a hard time so allow yourself to grieve. I am sorry you had such a bad experience with your doctors as well you would think they would of been more understanding considering the circumstances, did they expect you to miscarry naturally? My ob actually told me to get the d&c as at that stage in the pregnancy it would be painful and distressing to me.
Anyway I pray you have a baby in your arms soon.
Take care
Baby hopes, I am very sorry for the death of your little bub. HUGS. I'm glad you've found help here at BB. I hope you're recovering well and will soon be on the journey to holding a little one in your arms.
Babyhopes the death of a little one is so hard - my story is similar to you and Cherie - but BB is such a great source of support that you are in the right place. Make sure you grieve properly and don't let anyone sweep this loss under the carpet. Yes, these things happen for a reason but it is a loss that you have to acknowledge and grieve for before you move on. Good luck with your journey and I hope we hear happier news from you soon!
I am so sorry for your loss And I am sorry that you had to fight so hard to get what you want.
You need to take time to grieve, you have lost all the hopes and dreams you had for this bub. You need to take one step, one day at a time. Please don't be too hard on yourself, you are only in the raw stages of grieving.
I know for me I have gained strength from the wonderful, beautiful people I have met here. It takes time to gain strength, so surround yourself with supportive and caring people. Take care, thinking of you :hugs:
i wanna say a big thankyou to all people who replied i wasn't going to put up a post but i am glad now i did it's nice to meet such supportive and wonderful ladies.
i am truely sorry for all yr losses i send big hugs to you all
Babyhopes i am so sorry to hear of the loss of your little angel give yourself time to greive it takes time my heart goes out to you and you DP take care.
just a quick reply to say hi i am having a crappy time atm i am off to my doc tommorrow since the m/c i have had the worst headaches and dizzy spells and so so tired alot so i thought get it checked out hubby is worried cause iv'e had so many hopefully they can find out what's going on
sorry to hear you are feeling crappy its hard at times especially when you are feeling the way you are is it possible you have low iron or anemic i think its called sounds like the symptoms of it, could be possible as my auntie had it and she felt awful she had no energy and wanted to sleep all day and had the dizzyness i hope its nothing to serious let us no how you get on i think the worst thing is the not knowing it drives you crazy good luck with it and hope you feel better soon big :hugs: to you.
well that was a waste of time the doctor wanted to give me a fbc and i exsplained to him i already take iron tablets and had like 3 fbc in the past month and he gave me antibiotics but i told him those one's make me crook as so now i'm not sure what to do i am really starting to think even the thought of ever ttc again is way out of the question
dont give up on yourself if you think something is not right then keep on at the docs and tell them straight be firm if you have to what does FBC mean sorry dont mean to be thick i just dont no what it means. as to the iron it cant be that if you are taking iron tablets so i really dont no why you would be feeling they way you are my docs have fobed be off so many times and i just keep going back i have been trying for 10 months with no sucess but i have stomach pains all the time and my AF's are all over the place again which dont help so docs have finally done a smear and swabs and then if they are clear they will do blood test. but please dont give up on yourself your time will come to start TTC and you will get a nice sticky bub try and be positive i no its hard as i have my negitive days and feel like i will never have another baby to hold i cant ever imagine seeing those 2 blue lines but i keep telling myself it will happen one day and when it does i will be the happiest women in the world take care and be kind to yourself.
sorry fbc [full blood count] i can't help but feel really down on life atm iv'e been through a few pregnancies and had no problem's but i have also had a few losses over the years too i just don't understand why some have wonderful happy lives and others have so much heart ache it doesn't seem fair
I totally understand where you are coming from here is a big :hugs: from me at times life just isnt fair it was only 2 nights ago i was lying in bed crying my heart out saying why did my angel go why her why cant she be with me now enjoying a happy life that i could have given her and to play with her big brother harvey who would have been the best big brother its just not fair when i found out that i was going to have to have that horrible injection i just wanted to run away although i new it was the best thing to do i wanted to run away and wait till i was full term and wish she was perfectly healthy but i feel better today its just every so often i have these outbursts of tears and it is usally at night when my DH and DS are fast asleep as i dont want them knowing i am feeling down and upset i feel like my DH has delt with everything so well compared to me. but my counsellor said this is my way of grieving i no its a yr on but she said greiving can go on for a long time and the same with yourself you just need to let you body have these feelings try not to fight them as i did and it made me worse i really hope you feel better about everything soon and get them docs to do as there told also sorry for the lon message i hop you dont mind didnt want to steal your thread if you no what i mean.
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so so hard
i am off to my doc tommorrow since the m/c i have had the worst headaches and dizzy spells and so so tired alot so i thought get it checked out hubby is worried cause iv'e had so many hopefully they can find out what's going on
i am really starting to think even the thought of ever ttc again is way out of the question
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