sorry to butt in I know you asked Melster but im going throught that fear thing at the moment my only experience birthing boys results in death and now due to have boys in a few weeks and absolutely crapping myself doesnt even begin to sum up how i feel so for me i dont think there is any way to get over the fear until you are proved wrong if that makes sence (for example: you go on to concieve and have a very healthy and happy pregnany and I give birth to my boys and get to take them home and watch them grow) Thats my opinion anyway but that could be because of the situation im in there maybe someone come in here and give a better answer!