I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I'll pray you find peace and closure, although this experience will never totally leave you.

Unfortunately, people really don't know what to do or say in the face of obstetric loss. And if they haven't been through it themselves, they might think your new baby is the replacement. Although you know it's not like that at all.

I don't actually commemorate EDD's, although a lot of the ladies around here do. I commemorate the actual mc dates, usually by visiting the cemetery where my father and brother are buried and releasing a balloon.

Sending a cyberhug.