I m so sorry for where you are at and what you are going through. It was only yesterday that i was given a clear answer as to what had happened with me and the news was not good but at least i knew. I hope in your situation the news is completely different. What you are going through now is the worst part. The bleeding but not knowing. Scared to do anything incase it impacts on baby and the result ends up bad, afraid of basically everything. As for the inlaws...... trying to find the words to put it nicely but i cant. Maybe try what I did. I through the biggest tantrum at their place on Christmas Day then stormed out. Their attituded changed very quickly.
I waited for 4 weeks. Crying continually hardly leaving my house. Walking around shopping centers doing christmas shopping with tears that just would not stop. What you are going through is the worst part.
Dont give up though. They dont all end in miscarriage. My closest friend has 2 beautiful girls, one 13 and the other 12. They were both meant to be miscarriages.