Hi, thanks for all your replies, it is comforting to know others understand what I'm going through. I am still pretty much in the same situation. I have this dark spotting/discharge still, it stops every once in a while but not for long. The cramping has practically gone although I can't be sure whether that's a good sign or not. I am going in for an ultrasound this week which should tell me what's happening.
I can't help but still have hopes as much as I keep telling myself all the signs are bad. I had to book in for a twelve week ultrasound and for midwifery care last week even though I don't know if I'll need them, that was difficult.
Most of the time I'm doing OK but I am terribly preoccupied with the whole thing. It's strange as well to have to keep up with the pregnancy considerations when I'm not even sure there is a baby in there anymore.
I will let you know what happens at the U/S, wish me luck.