Hi Leis,

I understand and don't feel you have offended anyone. I to would love to adopt my DH is not against this but his age is, we have been told that a lot of countries will not even look at you if the father is over 40yrs - how true this is i do not know - if you have more info please let me know. I pretty sure though you have to go through DOCs here for adoption. I have gone thru IVF 5 times and my DH did not want anymore children (DH had two from previous marriage - non with me YET!!!) But he came around and is now hoping we will one day succeed and thats all we can do TRY- Good luck - I know all about ENDO too my sister and niece both have it extremely badly, my sister was told she would never concieve and she now has a beautiful 24yr however the ENDO has now passed onto her and have been told worst case they have ever seen in Australia. What ever you decide to do I hope it turns out just as you want - and have a great holiday
Lissie