awwww Lulu that is so heartbreaking... IKWYM. Often when M has her own meltdown, she loses friends who don't want to play with her in fear of it happening again. Luckily it hasn't happened at school, but some of the kids see it when they come home with us. We've had to deal with it a lot in the meantime... losing friends who don't want to be around the meltdowns.