Jelvie - oh that thing with the lollypop stick is so Xander. He can also remember whole sequences of dialogue from movies so we really have to watch what he watches as some lines from childrens movies sound horrible when spoken by a 4yo out of context.

Monnie - thank you for that info, I'm going to go check out that clinic via google now.

Thank you all for all the info and advice. This is the first time I guess I've admitted to anyone else that there is something going on. It is so nice to talk about DS and hear about others quirkiness.