Well like skybie said basically in the end someone 'wins'.

DH picked dd1 dd3 and ds name. I did a skybie and got dd2 but that was because I picked it at five weeks so he hadn't thought of anything else yet. Lol.

I'm lucky that I just end up loco g the child do I like the name. They do take some getting use too if it's not your pick tho, the name that is not the child