We short listed 10 neames each and crossed off the 1s you cant live with. Then let the remander sit for awhile- and we have always decided after baby was born- let the personality come through alittle too.
Its 1 of the hardest decissions to make I think.
Oh, we also took into consideration the meanings. Some nice names have meanings we both hated. DS2 Oliver means Elf army and that is so him to a T. Lucius means light bringer and he is certainly that. We have issues over pronunceation though- Harry Potter has a Lu-see-ous and we pronounce ours Loo-shiss so you need to take thing like that into consideration too.
Good luck