My DH and I have the same issues. Since I 'apparently' choose DD's name he feels he should name this one. My memory was I put together two lists of about 15 names for boys and 15 for girls and gave them to DH to look over, cross out what he liked or didn't and add what he wanted. DH is a bit lazy so just crossed out all the names he didn't like but never added anything to the lists.... We got down to three names for each and left it there. On the way into the hospital DH said.....so are these our names and I said yeap I like them.....

This time around we had to do IVF......I went through allot of procedures because DH didn't want to go through one procedure (he would have preferred not to have another baby - but knew it was a deal breaker for me) so when we discussed it he said that given what I had to to have this bub he would let me name it. I said I would still not name bubs anything that he didn't like but would do the list thing again.....Anyhow just after we had our 12wk scan DH said he wanted to find out the sex....he knows I don't so he started arguing over that saying that I'm not the only one involved with making this baby and he should get a say...the he says "I'm naming this baby aren't I seeing as how you named DD?".... I'm like WTF that's not what we agreed to?????

So anyway he has suggested one name so far 'Petra'...there is no way I'm having a baby named Petra.....but I decided that I wont argue about it just now. We still have a while until we have to decide so I'm going to wait until after Xmas and then I have said to DH to have a list of names he likes....we will combine with mine and go from there....who knows if it will work....I guess someone has to make the final decision but I am hoping at least it might be something we both like.....

Goodluck!