It's so hard Ash, and you're definitely not weird! I think giving your child a name is a huge responsibility.

I had loads of girls names and a couple of boys picked out; DH only ever had a couple. He vetoed my favourites and I did the same with all of his.

When we found out we were having a pink one, there were two names we heard that we both fell in love with that were never on the original lists, and that was that. Time for my confession - we have one if she's a brunette, and one if she's a redhead

Good luck, and don't feel pressure to have it planned in advance. I predict we'll change our minds!