Thanks everyone, its more my sister than anyone else. She invited herself to DD2s birth and has demanded that she is notified as soon as i go into labour this time around so she can leave Geelong for Ballarat as soon as she gets notification and not to look after my other kids to be in at the birth again when she hasn't been invited!! It maybe hormones but she is annoying me to no end lately!

ETA- I think I'll be sending her a message the day after they are born lol