When I was pregnant with ds we found out he was a boy and chose his name before he was born and told everyone so there was no suprises. I've already chosen names for my next kid coz I'm just that lame hahah but I refuse to tell my family and I said even when I do get pregnant I'm going to find out the sex and keep that secret as well as far as I'm concerned they can build a bridge its my decision don't let them get to you babes xx