I love surprising people that's part of the fun for me!!

we didn't tell our famililies that we were pg until we were about 10 weeks, and we'd decided that if we were having twins, we were going to keep that as a surprise too (it was a significant possibility, as there's twins on both sides of our family...).

this is your baby, your special time, and you get to make the decisions in the way that you want.