but then think about some ppl dont like names coz their normal coz their boring say James like i named my son ppl always say why such a boring name but i chose it for my stepdads best friend who sadly passed a few years ago and having a friend who said she 'saw' him watching over me convinced me even more even more freaky they both had the same birthweight also a maori middle name kai for my nz heritage and george for DH's grandad that passed away when he was 16
back 2 topic there are ppl who dont like normal spellings KWIM