I am at the other end of the scale with 4 yrs 11 months between my first 2 and now 4 yrs 9 months between this bub and my middle.
Children need nuturing no matter what age they are, my 9 yr old still needs as much of me as my 4 yr old does but of course they are different needs.
I never intended on having such a large gap between our children but fetility issues saw this happening, we have copped flack for having such a big gap between our babies.
But it doesnt bother me, my babies are all loved the same and they love each other very much, to me they are brother and sister and age doesnt factor into it.