I am too scared to try them in the same room - DS woke 4 times last night, I am worried they will just keep waking each other up and I will spend even longer with both of them screaming!

Mayaness, I am sure the impending baby has a lot to do with it. DS was a lot better but has been waking at least twice again lately. I have tried putting DD in our bed but once she is screaming she is really unreasonable and she just fought to get up again (I thought it was sure-fire since she co-slept until 18 months!). Believe me that shutting the door on her is really a very last resort thing. I hate it. I really, really hate it. I just have nothing else.

Treecyp, I hope you guys can get something sorted out soon xx. It is hard.

We have rearranged her room and have been spending time in there just hanging out on her bed reading books etc to hopefully make her happier to be in there.