Ok so as usual I have no idea where to put this, so mods move it if you need to...

Well, since finding out about my surprise pg, I have been worrying about how I'm going to cope with all of the logistics of it with a newborn and a 16 mth old. I know I'll manage somehow, lots of people have.
But mostly I am also worrying about what its going to mean for my DD. I have been in tears thinking about what I'm going to deprive my DD of. She will still be a baby herself and unable to understand what it means to have a newborn. She won't get so much attention, when she is the centre of our world now. She will get less cuddles, she will have to grow up before her time. I'm so worried how this will affect her.
If you have had your children close together, how did you find it? Did you worry about these things, how did you overcome them. All I can think about is is what a new baby will do to Lily. Don't get me wrong, I am happy about my pg and I guess when baby comes it will all be fine, but I can't get these thoughts out of my mind.