i cant offer you any advise really, but i just wanted to say that im sure Lily will be just fine, she will love to help with the baby im sure. Krystal has a doll which she just loves (this doll comes everywhere!) since about 16/17 months, she has taken an interes in dressing/feeding/wrapping her 'baby'. maybe lily has a doll that she can use to 'copy' what you do with the newborn?