I agree totally... FRUSTRATION is the biggest cause, and also a lack of knowledge and support. Look at what we have here a collection of mature supportive women ready to offer advice or support whenever we need it... we are lucky. There are alot of people out there without previous experience, mothers, aunts, sisters, and sadly even friends with no one to reach out and offer a helping hand when they are at their wits end. Maybe we need to make up BellyBelly cards to give out when we see a mum in need...

*hugs*
Cailin