thread: Feel like a bad mum

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  1. #1
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    Jul 2006
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    Thankyou both for yur encouraging words. Both mean alot to me

    Yes it is my first and i guess i over react some times. I just feel so bad letting her get so worked up, and a few have told me: If im stressed or upset then Chelsea will pick up on it as well. Goog point about babies needing to see a variety of faces. She does settle and seem happier when she sees daddy and i guess thats because she is asleep when he goes to work, wakes to me. Then she doesnt see any one else until 7pm when DH walks through the door.

    Simone-I go to mothers group on a Friday, it only started last week, but i dont feel like i fit in. Alot of the mums are older....or i have to say a bit stuck up? I met up with a new friend yesterday and had a ball....was so good to get out. Her little girl entertained DD (when she wasnt sleeping) and i had the chance to socialise with an adult!!! I'd love to get out and meet people...and your right, having something to look forward to helps. I have just put DD to bed and all i can hear is screaming, but im determined to not go in there.....as much as it break my heart :frown:

    If only my mum and all my old freinds weren't back in NSW id be right!!

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2005
    Pakenham, Victoria
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    Kim- you are doing all the right things, i felt so bad when i had Madison and i could not b/f her, i cried for days but now i look at her and she is a happy girl.

    I know that we have said we should meet up, you tell me a time and day and i will be there, next thursday there is a few meeting up in pakenham, let me know if you would like to come.