Oh Kim, you poor thing, you should have given me a call you duffa! Firstly, you are definitely not a bad mum, you are great with Chelsea. Secondly, BF is not the be all end all. I wasn't BF and (even if i do say so myself), I turned out ok!! You should definitely not doubt your abilities. Guess what? I've finished work now (thank goodness), so we may (hopefully) be able to find more time to catch up - it has been far too long (can't believe Chelsea is 8 weeks already!). I'll email you, but please don't hesitate to call me if you need someone to talk to. I'm only around the corner. xx