Thankyou both for yur encouraging words. Both mean alot to me

Yes it is my first and i guess i over react some times. I just feel so bad letting her get so worked up, and a few have told me: If im stressed or upset then Chelsea will pick up on it as well. Goog point about babies needing to see a variety of faces. She does settle and seem happier when she sees daddy and i guess thats because she is asleep when he goes to work, wakes to me. Then she doesnt see any one else until 7pm when DH walks through the door.

Simone-I go to mothers group on a Friday, it only started last week, but i dont feel like i fit in. Alot of the mums are older....or i have to say a bit stuck up? I met up with a new friend yesterday and had a ball....was so good to get out. Her little girl entertained DD (when she wasnt sleeping) and i had the chance to socialise with an adult!!! I'd love to get out and meet people...and your right, having something to look forward to helps. I have just put DD to bed and all i can hear is screaming, but im determined to not go in there.....as much as it break my heart :frown:

If only my mum and all my old freinds weren't back in NSW id be right!!