We went the whole hog with Lindsay and Erin (around 30 adults and about 10 kids) but with Paige we didn't because DH had to work and for financial reasons at the time too. I don't feel guilty about it, but wished we could have done more IYKWIM?

Do whatever you will feel comfortable doing Sarah. You don't want to be stressing about sunscreen etc when you should be enjoying the day.