arte, i'll tell you what we do with L some nights when he won't go to bed. I know W and L have had similar types of sleep issues in the past, so it may or may not work for you. Basically from about 8pm onwards we let him lie in his fold-out couch out in the lounge room with us. eventually when he's nice and relaxed he'll gently fall asleep and then when we go to bed we carry him into his bed. Not an ideal scenerio, i know, but way better than having a fight every night.