Those first 6-8 weeks can be rough while everyone is adjusting and mummy is really stretched. I gave myself waaaay too hard a time last time,
.totally agree - in that phase now...up every 2 hrs, DH is on the lounge, H is with me, getting out of the house is a major military exercise...but i keep saying to myself 'this is not forever'.

I think sometimes (i know for me anyway) we (as mothers) are our own worst enemy...i put sooo much pressure on myself....why ??? If the girls (and boy....)are happy, fed, bathed, and me too (not always in that order....LOL) then really, what else matters.

I love that little voice in my head....coz sometimes its absolutely yelling at me saying 'you have 4 children, making jelly for dessert, or the ironing, or the vacumming can wait....enjoy your children...'......