It will get better I promise. And sometimes when you do too many things to get her to distract etc it kind of feeds the fear. She can tell what you are doing. That it's out of the ordinary and they freak out more. Think of it in reverse. If it were you and suddenly everyone was making a big deal you'd be wondering why too. The more it is a part of her routine the easier it will be come. She needs to realise that bath doesn't equal pain. Which is pretty fair well done! It sucks when as parents we have to do things to them or for them that they hate. No one ever wants to see their kids cry.