Well I tried the come on lets pick out some shoes for you to wear today and he ran away from me. It was abit hard to be forceful today trying to get 4 kids and myself ready to get out of the house before 5 to 8. so I tried to put shoes on and said fine go without and we went. He stood in *****les within 5 mins and I made him hold my hand while he walked which he didn't like. and on the way home he asked to wear his brothers shoes ( he wasn't wearing any at the time) So I quickly got them out and put them on but they were just slip on sandal things and he couldn't walk in them but the point is he asked. So Tomorrow I will have a pair of shoes for him... I forgot to put his back in the pram this morning.. doh!!